# The Incel's Veto and Other Observations - Freddie deBoer ![rw-book-cover](https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!IZQe!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F48a599bd-f6e9-4d63-b118-8c925aa93a24_1376x768.png) ## Metadata - Author: [[Substack]] - Full Title: The Incel's Veto and Other Observations - Freddie deBoer - Category: #articles - Summary: insert summary - My notes: - Summary: why have those with the least exposure to sex and romance become so influential in our public debates about them? - URL: https://freddiedeboer.substack.com/p/the-incels-veto-and-other-observations ## LLM Chats ## NotebookLM ## LLM Audio ## Highlights > Men have always used conquest as a mirror, less interested in the person across from them (or, I guess, underneath them) than in the reflection they hope to catch in her eyes, a reflection that shows them to be a desirable human, one worthy of love. ([View Highlight](https://read.readwise.io/read/01kkjxvg6brdgbchj37cy0ncq3))